BOURNE BAPTIST CHURCH
Wellbeing
Relationships can bring great joy but also real challenges. Struggles in family or relationships are common and do not define your worth.
Common Questions
Is it normal for relationships to feel hard sometimes?
Yes. All relationships go through challenges. Difficult seasons do not mean failure – they are often part of growth and change.
How do I cope with conflict or distance?
Taking time to pause, reflect, and seek support can help. Healthy communication and outside guidance are often valuable.
When should I ask for help?
If a situation feels overwhelming, painful, or stuck, it’s okay to ask for help sooner rather than later.
How does faith shape relationships?
Faith can encourage patience, forgiveness, honesty, and care. It doesn’t make relationships perfect, but it can help guide how we respond to challenges.
Practical ways we can help
Pastoral conversations
Prayer support
Guidance and signposting
Support for families and carers
Things that may help right now
Taking time to listen and reflect
Setting healthy boundaries
Seeking wise support early
Praying for patience and understanding
External support & crisis information
If relationships involve harm or risk, please seek immediate help.
GP or family support services
Local counselling or mediation services
Emergency services if safety is at risk
